Specialist Psychological Therapy · London & Online

Menopause Psychology
London

Evidence-based psychological support for the cognitive, emotional and identity dimensions of perimenopause and menopause — from a consultant clinical psychologist who specialises in this transition.

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Dr Sanya Krljes DClinPsy PhD MSc Consultant Clinical Psychologist HCPC Registered 20+ Years Experience

Menopause is not just a physical event.

The brain changes during perimenopause and menopause in ways that profoundly affect how you think, feel, remember and experience yourself. Many women describe cognitive fog, low mood, anxiety, disrupted sleep and a quietly destabilising sense that they no longer quite recognise themselves.

These experiences are real and they are significant. But they are also not the full story of what this transition means — or what it makes possible.

Psychological therapy does not treat the hormonal changes of menopause. What it can do is help you understand what is happening, build genuine resilience, process what is shifting in your sense of identity, and find a relationship with this period of your life that is informed rather than reactive.

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Cognitive Change
Brain fog, concentration difficulties, word-finding lapses, and memory concerns that feel alarming — especially for high-functioning women used to sharp thinking.
02
Mood & Anxiety
Irritability, low mood, heightened anxiety or panic that emerges or intensifies in perimenopause, sometimes without a clear psychological trigger.
03
Identity Disruption
A sense that you are not quite yourself. That the version of you that was reliable and recognisable is somewhere becoming harder to locate.
04
Loss & Grief
Grief around fertility, changing body, shifting relationships or the felt loss of youth — emotions that are real but rarely given the psychological space they deserve.
05
Relationship Strain
The impact on intimate relationships, professional confidence, and the way you relate to others when you do not feel consistently like yourself.
06
Sleep & Regulation
Sleep disruption and its cascading effects on emotion regulation, cognitive function, and the capacity to manage stress that previously felt manageable.

Psychological work that takes menopause seriously.

My approach to menopause psychology is integrative and evidence-based. I draw on cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), schema therapy, and compassion-focused work, informed throughout by my neuroscience background — which shapes how I understand the brain changes underlying what you are experiencing.

This is not about managing symptoms and waiting for it to pass. It is about developing a genuinely different relationship with this transition — understanding it, responding to it with intelligence, and using it as an opportunity to understand yourself more fully.

I work with women who are high-functioning, accustomed to being on top of things, and who find the experience of not quite being themselves particularly disorienting. I understand that context — the gap between how you present and how you feel — and I work within it.

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Assessment & Formulation
We begin by building a precise understanding of what is happening for you specifically — not a generic menopause template but a psychological formulation of your experience, your history, and what maintains what you are finding difficult.
2
Cognitive & Emotional Work
Using CBT and schema-informed approaches to address the cognitive distortions, unhelpful patterns and emotional responses that menopause often intensifies.
3
Identity & Meaning
Menopause coincides with significant identity questions — about work, relationships, purpose and ageing. I make space for these as substantive psychological questions, not afterthoughts.
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Neuroscience-Informed
My PhD in cognitive neuroscience means I can explain what is actually happening in the menopausal brain — and that understanding matters. It changes the meaning of what you are experiencing.
"The women who get the most from this work are those who are willing to take their own experience seriously — not minimise it, not just push through, but actually understand what is happening and why."

Dr Sanya Krljes · Consultant Clinical Psychologist

What psychology offers that other approaches do not.

HRT addresses hormonal change. Mindfulness apps offer brief relief. Coaching works at the level of behaviour. Psychological therapy works at the level of meaning — the beliefs, schemas and patterns that determine how you experience and respond to what is happening to you.

The psychological dimensions of menopause are genuinely complex. They involve neurobiology, identity, relationship patterns, often longstanding schemas around performance and self-worth, and a cultural context that largely fails women at this transition. Addressing that requires depth, expertise and sustained work — not a six-week programme.

Consultant-level expertise in a specialist niche.

I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist with doctorates in both cognitive neuroscience (Imperial College London) and clinical psychology (UCL), and over 20 years of clinical experience. I have specialist expertise in menopause psychology at a level that very few practitioners in London offer.

I work with professionals and high-achieving women who need their psychologist to understand their context — the demands, the standards, the particular difficulty of struggling when you are accustomed to functioning well. I understand that context and I work within it.

Qualifications

MSc Neuroscience — King's College London
PhD Cognitive Neuroscience — Imperial College London
DClinPsy — University College London
HCPC Registered · BPS Chartered Psychologist & AFBPsS

What people ask before getting in touch.

I'm not sure if what I'm experiencing is menopause or something else. Does that matter?
No. My role is not to diagnose the hormonal stage you are in — that is a matter for your GP or gynaecologist. What I work with is your psychological experience: the anxiety, mood changes, cognitive symptoms, identity questions and relationship difficulties that may be connected to this transition, whatever its exact hormonal picture.
I am already on HRT. Can therapy still help?
Yes, and for many women it is most useful alongside HRT rather than instead of it. HRT addresses the hormonal substrate. Psychological therapy addresses the meaning, patterns and responses that HRT alone cannot change.
How many sessions will I need?
This depends entirely on what you are bringing and what you want to work on. We assess this together at the initial consultation and review it as we go.
Do you offer online sessions?
Yes. I work both in person in London and online across the UK.
What does the first session involve?
The initial consultation is 90 minutes. It is an extended assessment — I want to understand your situation thoroughly before we agree a direction of work.

Take the first step.

A free 30-minute consultation — by phone or video — where you can tell me a little about what has brought you here. No pressure, no obligation.

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